Do kids ruin your career? Furious debate breaks out on GMB

A heated argument sparked on the show Good Morning Britain as guests had differing opinions on whether women's careers are ruined by motherhood.

Narinder Kaur, who works in the broadcasting industry and is the mother of two children, believes that it's essential for mothers to be present at home because they cannot balance both their responsibilities. Meanwhile, Savannah Miller, who works as a fashion designer and is the mother of three kids, believes that women can manage both their home and work lives simultaneously.

The discussion has arisen following Lily Allen's statement that her career suffered as a result of having children. She refuted the notion that women are capable of balancing everything.

Narinder concurred with the sentiments expressed by the Smile vocalist, asserting that the notion of a woman being able to have both children and a thriving career is a falsehood.

She stated: 'I applaud Lily Allen for her candor. Her honesty prompted many mothers to realize the fallacy of the idea that you can achieve everything. It's simply not possible.'

During a recent discussion on Good Morning Britain, Narinder Kaur, a mother of two and television presenter, expressed the opinion that mothers should prioritize being at home rather than pursuing a career, as they cannot effectively balance both roles.

It's not possible to have a prosperous profession and take care of your kids at the same time. This statement is false since mothering demands your full time and attention to tend to your children's physical and psychological necessities. So, it's mandatory to be an at-home mom if you want to do it right.

Savannah contradicted the notion that women cannot balance motherhood and professional pursuits; however, she did acknowledge that compromises may need to be made.

She expressed her opinion that having everything in life is not possible without making sacrifices. She strongly felt that advising young girls to choose between pursuing a career or becoming a mother can negatively impact them.

It's abominable to instruct your sons that their partners must put their careers aside and prioritize yours after childbirth.

I aspire to raise young men who will be advocates of female empowerment. Why is it that a male's profession is often held in higher regard than that of a female's? This concept is beyond my understanding.

The designer of fashion shared that she was able to be flexible with her work when she became a parent, thanks to the support from those around her.

In her words, she expressed that her village fellows assisted her when she was unable to reach the school gates. And, every night, she made her kids sleep after reading them a story and returned to work on her laptop. She believes that it is detrimental to convey to women that their professional life is less significant than men's.

In the world of fashion, Savannah Miller is a well-known designer and a mother of three. Recently, she expressed her opinion that women can successfully balance their personal and professional lives. She firmly believes that women have the ability to do both, and should not have to choose between their family and career. Her statement emphasizes the idea of women empowerment and the need for society to recognize the worth of their efforts.

Narinder expressed her disagreement stating that it's not necessary to be like Superwoman, rather it's crucial to be present as a mother at home taking care of the children. She believes that our society does not cater to the needs of two working parents, and as a mother herself, she advocates for the mother to be the one staying at home with the children.

People quickly logged into X, previously identified as Twitter, to express their personal opinions on the divisive subject.

Someone remarked that the statements made by Lily Allen underline the significance of having thorough conversations and assistance relating to the obstacles that parents come across while working. The aim is not about achieving everything, but to attain a harmony that suits an individual.

Someone else stated: 'Why are we even discussing this? Choosing a career doesn't mean sacrificing having children. Let's gain some sense of reality.'

Another individual stated that it is not feasible to give complete devotion to both a career and parental responsibilities simultaneously.

It appears that some women have an intense determination to demonstrate that they are capable of accomplishing everything. However, this may not always be possible, despite their best efforts. As a mother who chooses to stay at home, I have been criticized for my decision. I believe that prioritizing the upbringing of your child should take precedence over pursuing a career at all times.

People hurried to X, previously identified as Twitter, to express their opinions on the debatable issue.

One person mentioned that having children does not necessarily destroy a person's career, but it can restrict their professional advancement if they are the primary caregiver for their children or share childcare responsibilities equally with their partner.

I frequently have the sensation that I am not providing enough, both in my job and as a parent. The guilt of trying to balance both roles is truly present!

The discussion arose when Lily Allen confessed that her two daughters have completely destroyed her career as a pop singer as she decided to focus on them instead of work. She affirmed that it's impossible to have everything.

The actress, who used to be a singer and is now 38 years old, expressed her opinion that women are faced with a decision to prioritize either their children or their career. She revealed that she personally chose to prioritize her children over her career.

During an interview with the Radio Times Podcast, she expressed that her kids caused her to lose out on a career in pop stardom. Although she loves them and they bring joy to her life, they were the reason for her missed career opportunity.

It really bothers me when individuals claim that you can have everything because, frankly speaking, it's just not possible.

The actress who started her journey as a singer, at the age of 38, expressed her opinion that women should choose either focusing on their career or taking care of their children. She made it clear that she has chosen the latter option. (In the picture, from left to right are Lily Allen, her actor husband David Harbour, and their daughters Marnie Rose Cooper and Ethel Cooper.)

Certain individuals prioritize their career above their offspring, and that is their right. However, during my childhood, my parents were notably absent.

I think it caused some unpleasant injuries that I don't want to experience again on my own.

Lily has a father named Keith Allen, he is a 70-year-old actor who left her mother Alison Owen, a film producer, when Lily was only four years old.

Lily has recently mentioned that she made the decision to take a step back and focus on her children. She expressed happiness in doing so because she believes that her children are now well-balanced individuals.

The vocalist behind the song "Smile" has two daughters named Ethel Mary, aged 12, and Marnie Rose, aged 10. Her former spouse, a builder named Sam Cooper, is the father of her children. Her most recent studio album, entitled No Shame, was released in 2018.

Lily has relocated to New York and is residing with her offspring and freshly-wedded spouse, David Harbour, age 48, who is recognized for his role in "Stranger Things". They got hitched in 2020 and Lily has now ventured into the field of acting.